One of several common mistakes I’ve seen fat dudes make will be either make excuses

One of several common mistakes I’ve seen fat dudes make will be either make excuses

Don’t Hide Yourself

With their size or effort to laugh it well by simply making jokes about padding or just how much more there clearly was for people to love. Both these approaches are mistakes; they betray a feeling of insecurity. Making jokes regarding the dimensions are more often than not a defense apparatus, looking to get the insult in before anyone else does to use the sting from it… and it simply calls awareness of the proven fact that you’re big and you are feeling embarrassing about any of it.

The important thing is just to perhaps perhaps maybe not carry it up at all. You’re big, you realize it, she understands it. Presenting yourself as yourself is far more attractive than trying to armor yourself up with jokes though you’re simply not ashamed of. Continue reading One of several common mistakes I’ve seen fat dudes make will be either make excuses